Katy and I met through a Yahoo group serving a Colorado Springs playgroup. I posted a message there when we were considering the move westward, and she was one of the first to reply to my bombardment of questions. We exchanged a few emails and based on those alone, I thought she was Chinese (her last name is Ong) and she thought I was Indian. It wasn't until we met that we found out our interracial marriages were just the first of a long list of things that we'd have in common.
Katy is the kind of BAC that I can always count on... whether it be to finish off a bottle of wine, to watch my kid while I'm visiting my sister in Germany, to recommend a good book or movie, to join me in letting loose on the dance floor to old 80's hits, to give me sound parenting advice, to research and put together a training plan for the triathlon we would compete in together, to put up with my annoying call-backs when I think of one more thing to tell her or to find and share in fun activities around town for the kids. She acknowledges and puts up with my stubbornness, my desire to always be right, my competitiveness and the bounty of other character flaws that I possess. Our relationship moved quickly passed the acquaintance phase to where now there are absolutely no formalities between us. Just the way I like it. We are like sisters and I'm really, really going to miss her. I'm not usually a touchy-feely person, but the realization that she's leaving Colorado and there are but days left, is making me all sappy and out of sorts.
LUMTP Katy!
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4 comments:
Well, if anyone knows how you both feel, it's me! I cannot tell you how many BFF's I've left behind over the years. It's heartbreaking so I totally feel for you two! Good friends like that are definitely a gift. Unfortunately, that's military life.
OMG! That's the only netlingo I know!! This online friendship will never work. I'll be spending all my time trying to decipher all your emails to me. Just when I finally get it right, it'll be time to move home. And you'll be getting ready to move to NC, right?
And that is so funny that you thought I was Chinese... for all this time, I NEVER thought of that. Turns out we're both not that interesting, just a couple of old white girls!
I'll miss you so much too. I was a mess yesterday and I'll be a mess again in a couple weeks. It's not going to be pretty, my drive to Dallas through tears and blubbering. Here's to friendship, my BFF.
OMG - I need tissues to read your's and Katy's blogs. We should all be so fortunate to have a friendship like you two at least once in a lifetime. And Sandy ... don't worry about that calling back problem because you forgot to say one more thing, Anne and I do it all the time, so did Granny. I think it's just one more of those Burgess things you must have inherited. LOL Talk to you soon! Happy New Year!
Weezie... I was hoping you'd justify that behavior of mine. :)
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